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Representatives from the players and referees unions will meet privately in Los Angeles during All-Star weekend. What should be the top item on their agenda?
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David Aldridge: Getting everyone to calm the (bleep) down about “respect.” The refs whine about not getting shown up by a player expressing legitimate anger; the players whine about refs not allowing them to vent in real time. You’re all getting paid a ridiculous amount of money. Players (especially the young ones), you don’t have to g…